ethics
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xxx.12 Mother Knows Best
It’s complex, thinking about this. Not about Emily here,we hasten to add: how we feel about her isn’t at all complicated. Emily is one of the central nodes of Sian’s polycule, and Sian loves her fiercely. No, we’re talking about niche kinks again. We’re talking about the forbidden. What does it mean to adopt the
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39. Authentic, Redux
Over on Primfeed, where Sian has been hanging out recently, the algorithm gave — Generated? Regurgitated? Exuded? — a link to a YouTube video about being authentic in Second Life. Sian thought, Ooh, discourse, and clicked, because authenticity is on Sian’s mind a lot. Maybe we’ll have a mention of Kierkegaard, even, she thought, maybe
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xxx.11 Realsies
OK, listen. Sian has written a few times now about the concept of doing things for realsies. And the general idea with that has been really that fantasy is fantasy, pretend is pretend. And when you are playing out role play fantasies that would be a bit unethical in the meat world, that is a
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34.0 Red Flags
The thing with kink is that while we work very hard to be safe, sane and consensual, the whole point is that we spend most of our time pretending to be none of those things, because that is the bit we’re hot, hard and/or wet for (delete as applicable). We keep being attracted by red
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33.0 Cruel
It’s weird being a domme when you’re also locked down in a lot of ways, but Sian’s threatening aura is, she admits, pretty attractive to subs. Recently, probably due to her various mental health issues, Sian has found herself losing patience a bit. Recently, Sian has been getting mean. This morning, Sian found herself pulling
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30.2 Say You Want a Revolution
Were we talking about equitable societies? In the UK, it’s now literally illegal to protest against genocides or to offer public support for people protesting about genocides. One specific genocide, anyway. You know the one (and if you don’t think it’s a genocide, please for the love of Goddess go away and get yourself
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30.1 winning
here, have some pictures of virtual sian looking like she’s winning. this is a typically tenuous reference to the court hearing that sian mentioned in a post last week: because against all odds, sian won. specifically, she won the recognition of her right to nearly two years of backpaid disability benefits and further monthly payments
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xxx.10 boxes
sian’s flickr got deactivated for having “adult content” this week. so it is gone. there weren’t even any nipples there. everything lewd was covered. it did not matter. rather than try to engage in five dimensional chess and work out what got the account nuked, sian just took it all down. here is a thought
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28.0 still pretend
sian returned from a week away doing very difficult things in rl, only to have a somewhat odd interaction. someone was awkward about leaving sian’s s/s/o roleplay group in order to go and play drone at the drone station, without realising that it was sian’s main hangout. they sent a series of apologetic missives about