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xxx.7 dominance and acceptance
it is pride month. sian is queer. you probably knew that. over the last 18 months, rl!sian has fully come out as trans and poly in the real world. she has a number of sexual partners of varying importance, all queer, and she has become part of the kink and fetish scene in their region.
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18.0 visible
it is trans day of visibility. sian at least is visible, even if [deadname] is really not. it’ll have to do. (featured clothing r2 rappa [currently at neo japan]/ phy.ka c-string/ the forge akumi jacket [also at neo japan]/ sole sa-headphone)
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15.0 multiple choice
this is a headline from newsweek. it is actually pretty old – it comes from 2019 – but the exact talking point it references seems to be coming up daily at the moment. please choose from the following blog post options. a. if only. can we not just hurry up and make this a thing
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14.0 given names vs taken names
we were surprised a few months ago to realise that people have connections with their given names. we had not realised that this was a thing (see: unnoticed autism). we have never experienced this feeling in meatspace, really; our human, who from now on we will call [deadname] since it is the name that for
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13.0 drugged
we are talking about pills today. here, have some musical accompaniment to make that more fun (our human has their phone set to play this song when it is time to take our meds because it amuses them). so. between october 2015 and january 2018 we had a near-fatal psychological breakdown. there were lots of
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∅.n mindwipe
“sex is now a conceptual act, it’s probably only in terms of the perversions that we can make contact with each other at all. the perversions are completely neutral, cut off from any suggestion of psychopathology—in fact, most of the ones i’ve tried are out of date. we need to invent a series of imaginary
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xx.xy tryouts
it took a long time for a lot of us to realise it, but one of the unexpected, unintended niches of secondlife has been its use as a testing ground for trans identity, for the sexuality of unaccustomed bodies, a relief from a dysphoria we might not even have known we had. We wanted to
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0.0 expendable
there is a moral calculus often made by supposedly progressive communities that considers the wrong sort of queer people expendable. so you get situations like the one with isabel fall, where a trans person wrote a thing that was powerful and angry and provocative and transgressive and paid for it. because she was not performing
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1.3 third person
it has been noted by more than a few people in and out of second life that sian’s player refers to sian in the third person. they sometimes hold conversations with sian, and hold different ideological and religious views – sian is an atheist, for example, while their meatspace analogue is not. someone asked the









