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Redux 4: Headless
Adult content. You know it. Content Warning for discussion of mental health, messed up psychological dynamics, suicidal ideation and pretended self-harm, along with sexuality, transradicalisation and all of that sort of thing. They’re the literal opposite of censorship, both an expression of compassion for the reader and a statement of respect, a recognition that the
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Redux 3: The Cyberdoll Manifesto
Imaginary Reader, this is another 18-certificate post. Adults only beyond this point. Catch up, if you need to, with part 1 (the why) and part 2 (the what). Done that (or don’t care)? well, let’s crack on. Ethical CNC, then: is that even a thing? Can that even be a thing? Can we do it
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We should (not) be ashamed of ourselves (probably)
In response to our previous post, Sian’s reader, beloved friend, regular philosophical sparring partner, and better blogger than Sian Portia Capelo wrote, in response to the idea that we’re not doing it for realsies: Sian had to stop and have a think about that, and maybe formulate an answer. And Sian felt she should write
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Redux 2: Where Do We Get Off?
This follows directly from the last post and it’s the part where we talk about fetishes. Weird fetishes, dark fetishes. This is quickly going to get heavy. It’s redemptive, too, but there are traumatic things that aren’t for kids and aren’t for you if you’re vulnerable or easily offended. That’s not a judgement: some people
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Redux 1: Really, though. Why?
It’s come into the conversation again, and honestly there’s an ulterior motive, because Sian needs an easily accessible explanation on her picks: why would Sian put herself through this? Sian is working on the principle that no one who is reading this will be in the dark as to who Sian is, or what Sian’s
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xxx.12 Mother Knows Best
It’s complex, thinking about this. Not about Emily here,we hasten to add: how we feel about her isn’t at all complicated. Emily is one of the central nodes of Sian’s polycule, and Sian loves her fiercely. No, we’re talking about niche kinks again. We’re talking about the forbidden. What does it mean to adopt the
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xxx.11 Realsies
OK, listen. Sian has written a few times now about the concept of doing things for realsies. And the general idea with that has been really that fantasy is fantasy, pretend is pretend. And when you are playing out role play fantasies that would be a bit unethical in the meat world, that is a
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34.0 Red Flags
The thing with kink is that while we work very hard to be safe, sane and consensual, the whole point is that we spend most of our time pretending to be none of those things, because that is the bit we’re hot, hard and/or wet for (delete as applicable). We keep being attracted by red
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33.0 Cruel
It’s weird being a domme when you’re also locked down in a lot of ways, but Sian’s threatening aura is, she admits, pretty attractive to subs. Recently, probably due to her various mental health issues, Sian has found herself losing patience a bit. Recently, Sian has been getting mean. This morning, Sian found herself pulling
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xxx.10 boxes
sian’s flickr got deactivated for having “adult content” this week. so it is gone. there weren’t even any nipples there. everything lewd was covered. it did not matter. rather than try to engage in five dimensional chess and work out what got the account nuked, sian just took it all down. here is a thought
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xxx.9 negative space
the important of negative space in fetish fashion cannot be understated; when you are hardly wearing anything at all, the relative positioning of what one is wearing can give an illusion of somehow being more naked, of highlighting your genitals, your torso, nipples rouged like Anaïs Nin, so that even though your arms and legs
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27.0 quiet time
sian’s delve into super niche sl kink has taken a further advance with the removal of her voice this week. now, not only can she not receive or send direct messages, she can’t talk in chat either. she can however speak in the hive mind, so if you have an avatar charm, you can