kink

  • 25.0 heroines of the villain era no.1

    25.0 heroines of the villain era no.1

    this is the final time sian is going to mention acéphale as a model for sl kink, honestly, but sian wanted to make a post in tribute to her friend m-doll 0809a (formerly known as mona eberhardt), with whom she counted a comrade since the early days of sian 1.0, back in the early 2010s.

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  • 23.0 theses on the queer villain arc

    23.0 theses on the queer villain arc

    the thoughts sian had the other day about bataille have continued to resonate, and sian has told a bunch of people about acéphale now, and blown a fair few minds with it. sian supposes it is time to have a proper think about this. don’t worry. if you are here for the photos, that is just fine. 

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  • xxx.8 you had her at hello

    xxx.8 you had her at hello

    so one of the things with hypnokink is that you can install a trigger in someone that makes them feel nice, like a little blast of dopamine that makes them all shivery and makes their nervous system go brrrrr. sian doesn’t know how it works, but it works and it’s her favourite thing to do

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  • xxx.7 dominance and acceptance

    xxx.7 dominance and acceptance

    it is pride month. sian is queer. you probably knew that.  over the last 18 months, rl!sian has fully come out as trans and poly in the real world. she has a number of sexual partners of varying importance, all queer, and she has become part of the kink and fetish scene in their region.

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  • xxx.6 permadoll37542

    xxx.6 permadoll37542

    it is not news to reiterate that secondlife is a place where you can indulge some really niche kinks. for example, sian’s beloved comrade of many years m-doll 0809a (f.k.a. o.g. virtual world blogger mona eberhardt) is at the time of writing going entirely headless at mistress ani’s behest. m-doll cannot communicate in local or

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  • xxx.5 not easy being green

    xxx.5 not easy being green

    you – our fictional reader – may or may not have noticed a difference in sian’s aesthetic in her* last post. it’s fine if you did not. we are not expecting you to.  anyway. we will probably post an + irl update + soon enough but suffice to say that sian spent the best part

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  • xxx.4 true story

    xxx.4 true story

    this is actually a true story, but we are going to avoid using names, because although it’s a matter of public record, the woman it is about has spent years trying to escape it. so why even tell it?  it is worth understanding. that is why.  we hope she is happy and safe and that

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  • xxx.3 sian. is. a good. doll.

    xxx.3 sian. is. a good. doll.

    (cw. deep fetish things. erotica.) + submission. – – + tools of kink that cover the taboo parts of the body can be sometimes more suggestive than nudity; sometimes they are stranger and more explicit than actual sex: a tattooed word, a clamped-on piece of technological equipment that allows the imagination free rein for its

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  • xxx.2 rent me

    xxx.2 rent me

    one of the things sian thought was a good idea while on hiatus was monetising their spiky, magnetic queerness. they know many more sex workers in meatspace than they ever thought they would, and while they have in the past we have also been in touch with and even worked with organisations that deal with

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  • 12.0 the hiatus was probably temporary

    12.0 the hiatus was probably temporary

    we appreciate that we have been quiet for a while now, and now suddenly we are a month into 2022. no, we are not sorry. sian supposes that we were waiting for the dust to settle a bit – between this blog somehow winding up on a roundup of last year’s best secondlife blogs (after

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  • ∅.2 recreational mindfxxxing, a guide

    ∅.2 recreational mindfxxxing, a guide

    sian isn’t a terrible hypnotist. their hypnosis method is their own. they have tried others, including the most common variants used in secondlife (the one sian has seen most is where the subject sits and gazes at a rotating spiral, and the words of the hypnotist are superimposed over it). sian’s version, which works on

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  • 11.0 we are not puzzle pieces

    11.0 we are not puzzle pieces

    we were reminded of a meatspace friend from a few years ago who was into kink – you may be surprised that we know a lot of people into kink  – a submissive woman, straight, who had a thing for being humiliated and verbally abused. it turned out that pretty much every straight man she

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