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18.0 visible
it is trans day of visibility. sian at least is visible, even if [deadname] is really not. it’ll have to do. (featured clothing r2 rappa [currently at neo japan]/ phy.ka c-string/ the forge akumi jacket [also at neo japan]/ sole sa-headphone)
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17.0 how do we even start with this
we have no idea who is reading this. that’s a feature, it’s what we intended. but it also means we don’t know if anyone cares. you can ignore this and skip to the nice pictures. we won’t mind. that’s ok. but we’re not. we can feel it coming on, and we want to write it
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16.0 artsy
sian has been portrayed in art before. the old version of sian was cosplayed on two occasions (once by a troupe of exotic dancers from russia no less). their friend dream once drew a sketch of them as well, which sian still treasures. but that was a good five years ago. it has been a
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15.0 multiple choice
this is a headline from newsweek. it is actually pretty old – it comes from 2019 – but the exact talking point it references seems to be coming up daily at the moment. please choose from the following blog post options. a. if only. can we not just hurry up and make this a thing
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14.0 given names vs taken names
we were surprised a few months ago to realise that people have connections with their given names. we had not realised that this was a thing (see: unnoticed autism). we have never experienced this feeling in meatspace, really; our human, who from now on we will call [deadname] since it is the name that for
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13.0 drugged
we are talking about pills today. here, have some musical accompaniment to make that more fun (our human has their phone set to play this song when it is time to take our meds because it amuses them). so. between october 2015 and january 2018 we had a near-fatal psychological breakdown. there were lots of
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12.0 the hiatus was probably temporary
we appreciate that we have been quiet for a while now, and now suddenly we are a month into 2022. no, we are not sorry. sian supposes that we were waiting for the dust to settle a bit – between this blog somehow winding up on a roundup of last year’s best secondlife blogs (after
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xx.xy tryouts
it took a long time for a lot of us to realise it, but one of the unexpected, unintended niches of secondlife has been its use as a testing ground for trans identity, for the sexuality of unaccustomed bodies, a relief from a dysphoria we might not even have known we had. We wanted to
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0.0 expendable
there is a moral calculus often made by supposedly progressive communities that considers the wrong sort of queer people expendable. so you get situations like the one with isabel fall, where a trans person wrote a thing that was powerful and angry and provocative and transgressive and paid for it. because she was not performing