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xx.xy.5 retrospect
not very long ago, rl!sian found tucked into a copy of michael moorcock’s cornelius quartet a folded piece of a4 on which she had, many years ago, written thoughts about the book, and its queerness. she had long ago forgotten ever having written it. sian was struck about that young person’s underlying assumptions, notably her
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xx.xy.4 patch notes, first iteration
hrt day nine, 100mcg estradiol patches: it is far too early for rl!sian to exhibit obvious physical changes. but there are changes already. no one is reading this, so we are going to use this blog as an occasional transition diary. if by some fluke you are reading this, feel [redacted] to skip to the
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xx.xy.3 passing on passing
the concept of “passing” in trans circles has extreme ambivalence attached to it. everyone wants to, but at the same time, it does not feel as right as it might do. if you can go out of the door as a trans woman and people will assume you are a woman, it is goals, it
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24.0 disabled
it’s disability pride month. it is hard to tell if an avatar with a disability in second life has disabilities in the real world because secondlife is the sort of place where you can know someone’s philosophies and desires in the most intimate terms and yet have no idea what their players even look like.
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20.0 notes from a terf island
you might want to ignore either the pictures. or the text. there is dissonance. [++ trigger warning: transphobia ++] in january 2022, the council of europe issued a report saying that the uk – where sian lives – was one of the worst places in or adjacent to the european continent for lgbtq+ rights , putting these
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xx.xy.2 feminised
a whole bunch of things happened to rl!sian in the year and a half this blog was missing. some of them you don’t need to know, obviously, but aside from that moment where she saw herself as he saw her, and climaxed, and came out the other side a different person; and how she started
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xxx.7 dominance and acceptance
it is pride month. sian is queer. you probably knew that. over the last 18 months, rl!sian has fully come out as trans and poly in the real world. she has a number of sexual partners of varying importance, all queer, and she has become part of the kink and fetish scene in their region.
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xxx.4 true story
this is actually a true story, but we are going to avoid using names, because although it’s a matter of public record, the woman it is about has spent years trying to escape it. so why even tell it? it is worth understanding. that is why. we hope she is happy and safe and that
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19.0 dys/abled
when exactly does a disability become a disability? we are still here. just accept that.