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xx.xy.3 passing on passing
the concept of “passing” in trans circles has extreme ambivalence attached to it. everyone wants to, but at the same time, it does not feel as right as it might do. if you can go out of the door as a trans woman and people will assume you are a woman, it is goals, it
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23.0 theses on the queer villain arc
the thoughts sian had the other day about bataille have continued to resonate, and sian has told a bunch of people about acéphale now, and blown a fair few minds with it. sian supposes it is time to have a proper think about this. don’t worry. if you are here for the photos, that is just fine.
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21.0 this is all pretend
like many long time secondlife players, sian has maintained several accounts over the years. the first one, from 2009, started out as an incompetent dive into secondlife roleplay and fetish, that quickly turned into her breaking someone’s heart, starting a drone hive and eventually having to nuke the account because of an interaction with someone
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20.0 notes from a terf island
you might want to ignore either the pictures. or the text. there is dissonance. [++ trigger warning: transphobia ++] in january 2022, the council of europe issued a report saying that the uk – where sian lives – was one of the worst places in or adjacent to the european continent for lgbtq+ rights , putting these
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xx.xy.2 feminised
a whole bunch of things happened to rl!sian in the year and a half this blog was missing. some of them you don’t need to know, obviously, but aside from that moment where she saw herself as he saw her, and climaxed, and came out the other side a different person; and how she started
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xxx.7 dominance and acceptance
it is pride month. sian is queer. you probably knew that. over the last 18 months, rl!sian has fully come out as trans and poly in the real world. she has a number of sexual partners of varying importance, all queer, and she has become part of the kink and fetish scene in their region.
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18.0 visible
it is trans day of visibility. sian at least is visible, even if [deadname] is really not. it’ll have to do. (featured clothing r2 rappa [currently at neo japan]/ phy.ka c-string/ the forge akumi jacket [also at neo japan]/ sole sa-headphone)
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xxx.3 sian. is. a good. doll.
(cw. deep fetish things. erotica.) + submission. – – + tools of kink that cover the taboo parts of the body can be sometimes more suggestive than nudity; sometimes they are stranger and more explicit than actual sex: a tattooed word, a clamped-on piece of technological equipment that allows the imagination free rein for its
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15.0 multiple choice
this is a headline from newsweek. it is actually pretty old – it comes from 2019 – but the exact talking point it references seems to be coming up daily at the moment. please choose from the following blog post options. a. if only. can we not just hurry up and make this a thing
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14.0 given names vs taken names
we were surprised a few months ago to realise that people have connections with their given names. we had not realised that this was a thing (see: unnoticed autism). we have never experienced this feeling in meatspace, really; our human, who from now on we will call [deadname] since it is the name that for
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xx.xy tryouts
it took a long time for a lot of us to realise it, but one of the unexpected, unintended niches of secondlife has been its use as a testing ground for trans identity, for the sexuality of unaccustomed bodies, a relief from a dysphoria we might not even have known we had. We wanted to
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0.0 expendable
there is a moral calculus often made by supposedly progressive communities that considers the wrong sort of queer people expendable. so you get situations like the one with isabel fall, where a trans person wrote a thing that was powerful and angry and provocative and transgressive and paid for it. because she was not performing